A reason, A season, or A lifetime

By | August 3, 2017

Five weeks. It’s going to be a sad day that I’ve had marked in my calendar for awhile. My best friend is moving away.

As the saying goes “people come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime”. What I thought originally started out as a season since she was moving away I believe has turned into a lifetime. We’ve spent a lot of time talking, hanging out and getting to know each other and I believe we will be lifetime friends. We may not have known each other for very long but it does feel like I’ve known her forever.

As we get older we need to remember that things in life change. Your friends are going to relocate for work, partners or other opportunities. People move away, and it sucks. I think one of the hardest things I will need to overcome is the random times we catch up. Regardless if it’s just stopping by on the way to work for coffee or being invited over for dinner after work. I know I will definitely miss the random movie nights and a few drinks. They’ve always been the best.

I know Cayden is going to miss the boys too. We’ve had sleepovers, easter, birthday and quite a few times hanging out at the parks. Cayden always makes sure he brings snacks or drinks to share with the boys, it’s quite cute. As hard as it will be to see them leave it’s definitely a good move for her and I am also very happy to see her be successful. She’s definitely deserving of it and I cannot wait to see her progression and “making it”.

I just would like to say I’m thankful for you always being there for me and becoming one of my closest friends I’ve ever had. It really is going to be hard to see you go but I know that we will keep in touch and one day we will organise a visit. I know that just because you’re is not going to be around anymore doesn’t mean our random meme sharing, Facebook tagging or chats will stop.

Good luck with the move and as always if you ever need anything you know I will be here.